T. Harv Eker: Rich people focus on opportunities. Poor people focus on obstacles

As I read T. Harv Eker’s Secrets of the Millionaire Mind: Mastering the Inner Game of Wealth, I learned a ton of things of how the rich think.In his book, T. Harv Eker first explained that our money blueprint determines our financial destiny and is conditioned by various factors such as the environment in which we are brought up, what we saw or heard when we were young. Following that, he explained in full detail in 17 wealth files of how rich people think.

One of them is Wealth File #5: “Rich people focus on opportunities. Poor people focus on obstacles.”

In the last four years of my life where I have committed to succeed in the ‘B quadrant’ (the ‘Business’ quadrant as in Robert Kiyosaki’s cashflow quadrant that had impacted and changed my life totally), I have seen many people make decisions based on just the risk or cost of a business venture.

I had a lot of challenge attempting to help people see things in a more comprehensive perspective, especially those in the ‘E’ or Employee quadrant.

Instead of looking at the potential profit that a business can bring which is:

Profit = Revenue - Cost

they are focused on just the cost!

In other words, they are focused on losing: how much they will lose each month, rather than how much they can profit each month after building up a business successfully over time. Somehow, they do not focus on the revenue that a business can bring.

In my opinion, T. Harv Eker had really done a great job in this short paragraph which I quote and reformatted here for your easier reading:

“Rich people see opportunities. Poor people see obstacles.

Rich people see potential growth. Poor people see potential loss.

Rich people focus on the rewards. Poor people focus on the risks.”

So, the question is, when confronted with an opportunity, do you just shut it off by just looking at the cost and not the revenue; just looking at the risk, not the reward; or just looking at the obstacles, not the opportunities?

source ~ personal

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Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life

Did you know that each one of our beliefs is a choice?

Even those we aren't consciously aware of. We still choose. We've chosen to accept most of our beliefs "without argument." That is, we unconsciously buy into what others have told us about ourselves and the world around us. Or we simply accept a certain interpretation of a past experience and assume that future events hold the same meaning.

For the most part, this allows us to function in a relatively healthy manner. Imagine trying to evaluate every detail of every decision we make every day to determine if we truly believe it so that we can act on it. We'd be paralyzed. We live life on faith for the most part, and this is good.

But in many cases our beliefs should be challenged.

Especially when we begin to realize that we're holding negative and self-limiting beliefs because "that's what I've always been told." Beliefs like: "I'm no good at math." ~ "I'm not a people person." ~ "I've never been good with directions." ~ "I'm a terrible cook."

Who says?! Who told you that? Probably a person, a cultural expectation, or past experience. But we can choose a different belief. Some people say that they aren't readers. Well, if you read a book guess what? You become a reader! It's a matter of choice. That's great news. It means we aren't victims to past influences or patterns of behavior.

So how do we change our beliefs? The answer is by thinking about our thoughts. Whenever we make a statement to ourselves or about ourselves, become aware of that self-talk. Bring it to light and then change your thinking about it. It's a choice.

And when we change our thinking, we change our lives. We'll explore this topic further, but for now look at the progression this sets in motion.

When you change your thinking, you change your beliefs;
When you change your beliefs, you change your expectations;
When you change your expectations, you change your attitude;
When you change your attitude, you change your behavior;
When you change your behavior, you change your performance;
When you change your performance, you change your life!

You already choose your beliefs. The question is, will you choose to evaluate them and change them if necessary? It's up to you.

Source ~ thoughtrenewal

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